WHY ARE YOU SCARED TO BE ALONE??

March 04, 2021

WHY ARE YOU SCARED TO BE ALONE??

In some place or some stages in our life we find ourselves with unknown reasons to be lonely , lots of things runs in our mind and all we sometimes wish is to be alone or we can somehow say its loosing our mind

We all have insecurity issues within our circle hence self esteem too.

Some people find it better or conducive when they are in their own company, be it at work or in a very busy environment , sometimes i find it's good and calm when i give myself a little time, like the inner me for long hence self respond is what i mean .

We all have several causes to decide whether we want to spend the rest of time/life-span alone , based on my conscience majority are in relationships not because they are comfortable ,but are just scared to be alone.

In today's generation we depend mostly on social media to be updated,We are so busy to a point that even having time to watch our favorite TV shows is a tantamount ,you have to schedule time .

their is a say goes by "The Busiest person tends to be the lonely being on the planet".

SOCIAL LIFE

Social means lots when it comes to human beings,We do have several ways we do socialize towards each other be it via phone call,texting,verbal interaction, all this leads to a "social life" but some tend to limit not because its affecting them on the other hand but because we all have our own insecurities.

Things have changed abruptly and they keep on fluxing, ,person to person (F2F) has become less compared to social media hence "social life " we have I.e dating sites,meeting groups that link different people from different geographical areas .

If you ask me how many persons I have met via social media, i can't even count,they're more than the number you think of ,the advantage of meeting some peer on social media is that you can shake them off when you feel like you don't want their presence anymore .

Life is good only if you accept or embrace the status that you're "in" .