BETWEEN 20'S

Did you ever realised or imagined you being an adult, taking care of yourself, being responsible for your moves and so on, freedom of your choices and the Do's and Donts, here comes the phase though we have the slogan that "Adulthood is a Scam" sure it is but on another hand its a phase to sharpen your mind and edge you with all the things you encounter in everydays life.

Remember when you all were being told to go to school and once you graduate you can sleep as many times you want, it has never happened, you're in full control of your life and the achievements to hit either long-term, mid-term or short-term goals.

I can't imagine living a life without the youthful stage the "Sherehe" and all the vibes it comes with, the epicentre of the "juice", the enjoyments, and so much more. Who have never been in a busy club, decorated with different hues of bulbs? This is a phase in life where you also have to determine what you want in life and what you're passionate about,

On the other hand, this is where adulthood hits you either unaware or aware, positively or negatively too. you also need to be a keen listener and a good learner during this cycle, though not all get things at their given time or as expected, here are some lessons you need to learn between the 20s.

HOBBY

The hobby is anything you do at your best regardless of any circumstance, for instance, I like writing, reading books and reviews too, we all have that one thing that we are good at, so focus on what you're good at and do it at your best.

INFLUENCE

As a youth, you have the "mbogi" crew I mean that you always feel like you are full and comfortable in it, that's a good feeling to feel and it's not bad, happiness is something that has to be created, we also have the crew that influence you with either a positive motive or negative motive, all this depends on your choice, if it's the "where he Gang" or the " Business Gang", after the end of the day or the end of your wishes, it will all depend on you and you alone, we all make mistakes and it allowed because we aren't perfect when in flesh but try always to be on the positive side.

CAREER.

Career is like a hobby but it's more than a hobby because this is something that you have to be a profession, it requires commitment for you to excel, you can also turn your hobby into your profession if possible though hobby is more of pleasure and having lots of fun, We all sometimes back wanted to be either a Dr., Nurse, Engineer and all sort of big names in the professional industry but as we grow to adulthood we realize what we want in future.

PEER PRESSURE

Alot of us find ourselves in troubles that we either induced for ourselves or we were influenced by a "friend" and you find yourself in a very trick predicament, you start worrying how you will extrude yourself there, we all want to live a better and enjoyable moment, so in everything you do or come across to try and figure out if you're doing it under other peoples' motive or your desires.

Hope I have advised someone with those words, I know we all aren't perfect but do it like you're used to it, happy to see everyone being happy with what they do regardless of their status /positions.

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