THE VICTIM GAME

They say a fellow man cannot infer or delimitate a fellow male by the views alone, yes I agree, only God knows a human in both soul and flesh and this is incontestable based on human understanding. We were created in a very unique way and similar to God except that we were never given the vision to predict nor to see what will come after or before the time tickles, with that, we have to agree with everything we come across regardless of the condition.

People act the victim game and later blame it on you, it is a trend that lots of people use especially in the theme of “Relationships” and many more of our daily life. We should note that not everyone is stronger to handle whatever you do, majority tends to ignore it, creating a nimbus cloud and when it began to rain you end up complaining why it rained and you were never updated for the same project you funded.

We have pretenders who are worse than murderers, Victims, Robbers, Con men/women, Bandits and carjackers, the list is unending, In a planet of more than 1 billion beings, how do you expect us to reason and act the same way, we might be equal but we can’t be normal at the same time, we never lack all the characters that you have ever imagined. This doesn’t mean that we don’t have good people, we do have but not in plenty as you think unless you have evidence to dispute my claim. Many people don’t know that they’re adopting, and by the time they realize they will be upset about the truth.

Before you leap to or you kickoff a new relation take period and mend the open wounds from your last tragedy, I’m not saying that all those who play the game of being the victims are people from dashed relation it can be from a bad childhood upbringing, Negative pattern, abuse or trauma. When you’re a victim you’ll never get enough of what you want and support and this is where you end up stuck in a negative pattern, They act parasitic knowing what they want at the end or they do it based on selfishness. We have such individuals in our daily lives.

The best way to overcome this is by always listening to your inner voice, we always have options whenever we wanna do something and never doubt our instincts, I know this might sound unachievable but you have the ability over everything surrounding you, take small steps day by day even Rome wasn’t built in a year, everything you see around you, those beautiful and amazing skyscrapers took years to be completed you can also follow the same patters. I hope this will be helpful, stand firm and try to take back control of your life.